Did you know that the sex toy industry is completely unregulated? This is an important fact to share with your patients, especially those who may not be aware of the risks associated with certain products. While many sex toys can bring fun and satisfaction, some may be made from harmful materials that can cause irritation or discomfort—and that’s because manufacturers aren’t required to follow any safety standards. In an effort to cut costs, some companies use toxic chemicals that could potentially do more harm than good.

As a practitioner, if you are recommending sex toys to a patient, you sure don't want them to come away with an irritation from the materials the toy is made out of- that's the opposite of the goal of helping them find pleasure.

I've never heard of anyone getting an infection from a cheap sex toy- is this a new phenomenon?

Not everyone's body will interact negatively with porous sex toys, and some people aren't impacted by chemicals in the same way as others are. Just like some lubes work for some people and not others.  But, over time bodies often become more discerning and your clients may find that what worked for them before- doesn't any more.

Because sex toys have often been sidelined as taboo, many people haven't been airing their negative experiences with them. And, many people think that their bodies are the problem, instead of blaming the real culprit- toxic sex toys made by cheap manufacturers. 

How to Help Patients Avoid Toxic Relationship… With Sex Toys

For patients who use sex toys as part of their sexual wellness routine, it’s crucial to know which materials are safe and which ones to avoid. That’s where you come in! By educating them on the importance of choosing body-safe toys, you can help them make informed decisions that support their sexual health.

Read on to learn about some of the safest materials on the market:

Silicone is a favorite for many, as it’s soft, flexible, non-porous, and body-safe because it doesn't trap bacteria in it's pores. It’s also great for temperature play and transmits vibration beautifully. Plus, toys made from silicone are easy to clean, and with proper care, they can last a lifetime. Whether your patients are looking for dildos, vibrators, or kegel weights, silicone is a great option. And, new since 2023, there are also a few brands that are testing their silicone toys with silicone lube, so your patients can have the best of both worlds and don't have to choose between silicone toys or silicone lube... getcha a toy that can do both!

ABS Hard Plastic
This non-porous material is commonly found in bullet style vibrators. It’s affordable, durable, and easy to clean, making it a solid choice for patients looking for a reliable, safe option. Some folx really like a firmer feel of toy in their hand and on their body. ABS plastic is lighter than other firm materials like glass and steel, and has a sleek feel to it.

Glass & Stainless Steel
If your patients are interested in something more luxurious, glass toys are a wonderful option. These toys are smooth, weighty, and beautiful, with the added benefit of being easy to clean. Glass is also perfect for temperature play, which can enhance sensation. Similar to glass, stainless steel toys are hard, smooth, and weighty, offering a different sensory experience. They’re also easy to clean and great for temperature play, making them a versatile option for many patients.

But aren't body-safe sex toys expensive?

Over the last 10 years, more and more sex toy manufacturers are jumping aboard the "body safe" train, and sex toys made out of body-safe materials have become increasingly affordable.  Clients can find silicone toys at a wide range price points, so arming them with the info about the potential pitfalls of using porous materials, doesn't mean spending an arm and a leg.