The Blooms Blog

Whichever entity created and perpetuated the myth that only aging or “dried out” women need to use lube, needs to be spanked- and not in the fun way. Here at Lotus Blooms we like to say, if you invest in only one sex toy in your whole life, a good lubricant should be the one. 

You don’t have to be hardcore kinky to exercise a little restraint in your sex life! It’s very common (and totally normal) to have fantasies about tying your partner up or using some kind of cuffs or other bondage toys during sex. The sensation of being restrained in some way is very erotic to a lot of people, as is the desire to take charge and do the restraining.